In the recent Cosmopolitan Philippines issue, I’ve read this article about Bianca Gonzalez.
It’s been a while that I’ve had my own copy of Cosmo that’s why when I saw the latest issue, I tried my best to skim through it while waiting for my mom (she was having her haircut).
The article goes something like this.
Bianca G, despite being beautiful and brainy all in one package still feels insecure towards the ex-girlfriend of her current boyfriend, direk Lino. She felt that direk might leave her if exie comes back to ph.
[Just check the May 2006 issue of Cosmo for details]
I talked to my gal best friend about this. And it shocked her that I still have insecurities. She told me something like “akala ko noon ako lang may insecurities sa’tin [barkada]. I didn’t know you still feel insecure about things.” She thought I had everything and therefore, I don’t have a single trace of insecurity.
After not talking with my guy best friend for months, we finally got time to hang around. Since it has been months, I had a lot to share. And to my surprise, he thought of the same thing as my gal best friend, that I don’t have a single trace of insecurity in my body!
Now, this is my point. I think, even the most multi-talented, over-achieved, most praised, all in one package person in the world still experiences insecurity, one way, or another. But having insecurity is not bad for me. To me, it’s natural, especially if there are many factors that contribute to a person’s insecurity. I think it’s in the way a person handles it. As for me, I just cried for some time, accepted the fact that it is like it, believed in myself and believed that people love me for what I am.